This was a crazy Monday morning in our house. My almost 4 year old was up several times between 4:00 and 6:30, which automatically put us in a bad mood before the alarm went off. In the process of getting my husband out the door, myself ready for work and Audrey ready for school she stopped and looked at me and said… “If I had a pretend mommy she would play with me more!”
That one little statement stopped me in my tracks. (My first thought was I wish you had a pretend mommy. I could get twice as much done.) But instead, I looked at her and asked, “Do you really think mommy does not play with you enough?” Of course her answer was a resounding “YES”. I was surprised because this past weekend we spent more family time together at home. Friday was Pizza Game Night and Saturday was Dinner and Play Time at McDonalds followed by an evening at home watching the Princess and the Frog. (Which is a must see if you have not already done so!)
I love being a mom, but I am the type of mommy that likes to go and do. Sitting at home and playing in the floor is a challenge for me. I try to keep us busy with preschool, playground time, ballet, Mom’s group, church activities and play time with friends. Audrey’s comment made me think about the type of play time we spend. Sometimes the simplest activities mean more to her than some of the bigger ones. She would be happy if we sat in her playroom and colored a picture or played with her Barbies.
This crazy off the cuff comment has inspired me to be more diligent in setting aside some special time each afternoon for Audrey & Mommy time. I already know this will be a challenge for me. However, I know the extra effort will be rewarded with her precious little smile and a big hug. And really what could be better or more rewarding?
Good luck this week to all you busy moms. You are doing a GREAT JOB!
Jeana Harbour – Busy Mom In Heels
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